Pity the women.
They constantly complain that there are no men around.
Women are not sorry, because they raise their sons like girls. They lisp with them all the way to school, fall into hysterics from any fall and bruise, or (God forbid, Kiryushenka get off immediately !!!) an attempt to climb the Swedish wall above the third step, put on them shorts for up to five years and feed from a spoon.
The result is natural: capricious semi-boys with sagging chests in kediki and with a leatherette adidas bag over their shoulder, dreaming only that their "ancestors" would save up money to buy a military commissariat.
What is meant by "man"?
Quite a house-building concept. A man must be strong. What does it mean?
Be able to make decisions and take responsibility for those decisions.
A question for parents - is your son learning to make decisions on his own and be responsible for them?
Decision making and responsibility are two sides of the same coin. Freedom on the one hand. Restriction of freedom on the other.
Example: a man makes decisions, but his woman is responsible for them. This is not a man, but a sissy. Man .
A man does not make decisions, but is responsible for them. This is not a man. And the henpecked. Man .
Further: freedom begins with self-restraint.
There is such an oriental saying “Camels are the first to drink water, because they have no hands. Men drink second, because they have no patience. Women are the last to drink.
In an adequate (non-Muslim) upbringing scheme, the rules should be different: “The best is for mom. Because she is a girl. Then the cat - because he is helpless and dependent on us. And then you and me. Because we are men."
Fourth.
At what age does a baby become a man?
From the moment you realize yourself as a person.
Psychologists know this age. Three years! Yes, moms. From the age of three, your son is either a man, or he begins to have gender distortions.
And the longer you communicate with him as if not with a man, the deeper his masculinity will be driven. And any suppressed, and not properly developed, male instincts will then manifest themselves in a perverted form: aggression, perversion, hatred or complete disrespect for the female sex, etc.
It is from the age of three that it is necessary to constantly inspire the son - "You are a man!". And it is from this age that it is necessary to teach him the normal masculine word “Must!”.
Alas, this is a fact - many of your “I want and don’t care!” or "I said so, so you must" lead to the development of a sociopathic personality. Look around and you will see a lot of men who are not able to force themselves to take any action.
A man must:
Be able to endure.
Learn to overcome yourself.
Learn to be wrong.
Know how to be gentle.
Know how to be rude.
Learn to be different.
Know how to take responsibility for your words.
A man must be able to BE.
From the age of three, the boy must be treated like a man. When he fell and yells in your arms (or didn’t fall, but just hysterical because of the desire to get a new toy) - you need to talk to him - “Are you a man with us? What are you yelling about then?" Do you understand that at this moment you are not giving the installation to him, but to yourself? What in the future, will you treat him as an equal and an adult?
Yes. The child must be treated like an adult. This does not mean that you should not play with him, do not forgive his mistakes, do not undead him, do not smile at him.
Sixth. A child can make mistakes. He explores the world around him, explores its boundaries. Do you know why men look like children? Because men are also pushing the boundaries of this world. The man must be worried. He is the driving force of humanity. And a woman is a preserving force, if anything.
You can't punish a kid for mistakes.
They need to be corrected. To him. Himself. On one's own. But with your hint and help.
Your room is your room.
You are the boss there - you tidy up your own place, make a mess yourself. - Mom is a girl.
The more we help her, the more she is pleased and the less she growls / grumbles. - You screwed up - answer.
- You can do everything yourself.
You are first and foremost the protector of the family.
“And don't forget.
We are together. - There is a problem? So there is a solution.
Get a cat.
A cat is generally the best tool for developing kinesthetics in a kid. And kinesthetics is the basis of sexuality. The phrase "trains on cats" is more relevant than ever in this case. Ironing / ironing cats contributes to the development of ironing / ironing abilities of women in the future.
- Can I ride a bike?
You are the man, you decide.
- I'm a boy...
- Then - you can't!
Men can, but boys can't. Offended sniff.
Five minutes later: - I'll go for a bike ride!
- Understood.
Go. - Can you help me carry the bike?
- Yes Easy.
Can you help me carry it? — Aha!
- Forward!
Or, for example:
- Son, tomorrow we go first to the cinema, then shoot at the shooting range.
Are you with us? - What movie?
— For adults.
"Brest Fortress" is called. - Can I shoot first, and then you go to the cinema, and I go home?
(like on a computer to sit at home to play) - No.
First at the cinema. Then shoot. I decided so. Because I'm in charge. Gone to think.
Returned. - I agree.
Grow real men out of your sons, ladies! Incomprehensible barbie-fights, and so already with a bust, your predecessors built up.
Source - actor's Facebook page.
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