It’s good when a child, after parental kisses, barely touching the pillow with his cheek, falls asleep, sleeps soundly, does not rush about, gets up in the morning with a smile. But it happens that the child can not sleep - he is afraid to be alone, afraid of the dark, crying. What to do if the child does not sleep well at night?
Some parents get angry: "Whims!". Others are sad: “We have such a nervous child!” And the medical marathon begins. And a lit night light does not help, because it softens the consequence - fears, but what is their cause?
If fears are caused by "irritable weakness" due to the child's constant toxicity with environmentally dirty food, water, air
Bad effect on babies and television. First, radiation is harmful to the body. Secondly, an excess of information, often cruel. Let your child watch only children's shows.
If the baby is overexcited, then before going to bed, talk to him, calm him down. Do not force your baby to once again experience an emotional lift: do not take him to the movies, do not give gifts for children before bedtime. Better - prepare a relaxing bath and get a little active in it. The child will be tired and fall asleep more easily.
Tell him a story. But aren’t scary tales to blame for the child’s fears? Whether such fairy tales are harmful to children or useful is a long-standing dispute.
Scary tales - should children read? Terrible tales among all peoples are carefully passed down from generation to generation, new ones are being composed. By the way, adults also like to scare themselves with detectives, thrillers. Most likely, these are methods of preventing fears and stresses. Something like an inoculation against smallpox, influenza ... So tell and read scary stories to your children, but always with a good ending. Do not interrupt the tale in a terrible place, postponing the victory of good for the next evening.
Scary tales were told to children in all villages. But what is strange is that the fear vaccine did not work for everyone. Some were afraid of the dark, huddled close to adults, others boldly went to the cemetery at night, fearing neither the dead nor the devils. Brave children usually grew up in close-knit families. Goodwill in the house, love give the baby a sense of protection, which his soul needs so much. After all, quarrels, cruel disputes of parents destroy the psyche of children. For them, this is an earthquake - as if the roof and floor of their home went to war against each other ... So do not stir up their bright souls - change anger for humor.
If the child does not sleep well at night ...
And lastly, increase the energy of the child. Few people, giving him the best piece, spending his salary on him, call their child a freeloader.
So here too. A father, and especially a mother for children, are eternal and continuous donors of vital energy. What does it mean?
Not so long ago, we were advised not to indulge the whims of babies, not to take them in our arms, and this point of view was imposed on mothers, starting from the maternity hospital. But no mammal runs away from babies immediately after giving birth. Now we, fortunately, began to trust the laws of nature more. Now a newborn in many maternity hospitals is no longer taken away from the mother, but immediately placed next to her to protect his biofield.
Not only among great apes, but also among peoples who have not lost touch with nature (Hindu, Japanese), the baby in the first months is literally suspended from the mother’s body, because he so needs to recharge her biofield with energy.
European scientists conducted an experiment: parents did not wean the babies from their hands, but continuously contacted them - they took them on their knees, stroked, kissed, took them by the hand. Children were always there - at home, and on a walk, and at a party. These children, continuously nourished by the energy of the parental biofield, grew up calm, friendly, not afraid of the dark, strangers, the outside world.
So do not be angry with the child when he is afraid to be alone in a closed room, afraid of the dark - these are not whims, but a lack of energy. Kiss more often, caress him - saturate him with irreplaceable healing energy.
The article was prepared for the site shop-ultra.ru.
