Dating sites with foreigners. How to choose a good one?

Are you desperate to find your Man in your native and familiar environment? Perhaps the Internet is exactly what you need: dating sites, chats, social networks, online games ... There are more and more options every day, but how to choose a really good one among them? Consider today the criteria for choosing a dating site.

Choosing an international dating site is always a bit of a lottery. After all, even on the site with the largest database of male profiles and potential suitors, it may not be yours, and only your betrothed. And on another site, they will suddenly require you to switch to paid services. And they will do their best to make you pay.

First, let's figure out what international dating sites are.

As such, there is no division into sites for men and sites for women.

There are international sites with a large number of male profiles, so the chances of meeting your betrothed increase there. Although it is possible that among this huge choice you will not work out with anyone. Therefore, do not get hung up on the number of questionnaires (of course, if it is not measured in tens or hundreds).

But even if you register on a site with hundreds of male profiles, there is a chance that your profile will end up in the database of a large international marriage agency, because some sites combine databases.

There are also sites that steal profiles from each other. Sometimes this is beneficial. A young married couple lives in Spain. He found her on a site she had never even heard of. I wrote her a letter, and for several years they have been together. And just recently they had a wonderful baby. However, one should not rely on chance.

Free, paid, partially paid. Real and fictitious.

With free and paid sites, everything is clear. Either you pay money for access to the database of suitors, or you don’t.

Partially paid foreign dating sites are something in between. Registration on such sites is mostly free, but some additional features and functionality need to be paid in advance. This may be access to VIP men, raising the profile, the ability to add more photos.

Often there are sites that are free for women, but men have to pay. The fee can be charged both for membership (N $ per month), and for each letter sent or for obtaining the contact information of a girl from the database.

Note that the dating industry is also a business, and like any business, it requires investment. And if the site is absolutely free (both the base and all the functions, and there are no paid services for both parties, and there is no advertising), accordingly, it does not bring any income. And as a conclusion, the owners of the site do not have financial resources for its development. Therefore, free dating sites often turn out to be of poor quality.

The low quality of the services provided by such sites comes down not only to a wretched interface and a minimal set of functions - they are very fond of visiting, due to their free and generally accessible, ordinary lovers of virtual adventures: in the profiles there are other people's photos and information taken from the ceiling, and serious intentions are nothing more than empty declarations. It is women who have no experience in dating and who believe in false confessions, send money to scammers, and then become disappointed and stop searching, convinced that only deceivers “hang around” on dating sites.

Yes, there is a chance: you may be incredibly lucky, and you will meet a “real” profile here - anyway, think about it: a man who does not want to spend quite a moderate amount for registering on a serious dating site and thereby provide himself with decent conditions for finding a couple and communication , it is unlikely that in the future he will want to spend money on you if a relationship suddenly develops and you get married.

He is simply stingy and petty. It is hardly worth starting this dubious epic: you can easily find such a husband for yourself without leaving the country. Therefore, treat free services with caution - you most likely will not find a responsible attitude towards yourself and your desires there.

Or site owners make money by deceiving customers, for example, by selling their contacts, etc. There are more and more sites on the network that help to marry a foreigner every year. And believe me, there are a lot of fictitious ones among them.

Be careful! There are sites that fool their clients, literally immediately after the declared free registration, they require you to switch to paid services. And they will do everything possible in the future to make you pay. On such sites, you may even receive some letters that will be from non-existent men. You will waste time, nerves and experience disappointment. If you have registered on some international dating site, and you have not received letters for three weeks and access to the men's catalog is closed, go to the site and delete your photo and profile. Look for another.

You can of course start with free dating sites. Perhaps your soul mate “lives” there. But only those who already have a good dating experience and can recognize a scammer at first sight and from the first letter can go to free sites.

Therefore, we recommend using partially paid dating sites , at least those where only men pay for services. Money is a kind of filter, albeit an imperfect one. Believe me, a fee of, for example, 20 euros per month is a small amount for men from developed countries, where a metro ride costs 2 euros. But there will definitely be fewer Nigerian scammers and scammers.

But such sites also impose more serious requirements on women:

# We need good and decent (!) Photos (otherwise they can easily refuse to post),

# You may need to send copies of your passport. Firstly, to confirm the reality of a woman, and secondly, to confirm her marital status.

# You may have to talk on the phone with a site employee. It is regrettable to be the object of such a thorough check, but you can still make sure that the site is actively fighting for the “cleanliness of the base”. It is also encouraging that similar actions are being taken against men.

Registration on sites focused on search in a particular country is very effective. Typically, such agencies are opened by women who themselves married a foreigner in the past and left for their spouse's country. The advantages of such agencies are obvious: it is easier for a female client to find a common language with the owner of the site (a native of the countries of the former Soviet Union). And they quite often personally meet with male clients and can then voice their description of the man, which is important.

Pay attention to how the correspondence is conducted between the site's clients.

In some sites, you can immediately see the e-mail address of a man, and he is yours. There are such sites of international dating, where correspondence can be conducted only on the site. There is, of course, a way out here as well. As a rule, you can give your phone number. Even if it is forbidden in the rules, you can always encrypt it in the text of the letter - after all, the letters will be checked by a “robot”. The man will be able to call, and you will give him your email address (therefore, the address should be made very simple, without combinations of letters tdch, etc.).

But it is believed that correspondence within the site is safer. After all, if a complaint is received against a man, only if there is evidence of his fraud in the letters, the moderator will be able to block the man's profile. Communication outside the site cannot be analyzed.

So, given the above, let's summarize. What site is considered good? This is a site with a large database of potential suitors, wide opportunities for searching and communication, which successfully filters out and blocks profiles of scammers and scammers and has a qualified support service to help clients.

So how do you choose the best international dating site for marriage?

1. According to the recommendations of acquaintances and friends who have found a husband or wife through a dating site.

2. Look in search engines, read reviews about dating sites with foreigners on the forums.

3. Choose sites that belong to large international marriage agencies. Any dating site should ideally belong to a marriage agency, in whose office the client can contact if there are any problems in order to communicate with live people.

4. Pay attention to the functions and interface of the site, how convenient it is for comfortable communication, whether there are daily statistics and practical materials that will help you navigate in the field of virtual dating.

5. You can evaluate all the features of the site, including the search function, only after registering and filling out the questionnaire. Sometimes you need to create profiles on several sites, test them and choose the best one.

It’s good when there are a lot of search criteria, because we are all quite different. Almost all dating sites have the simplest search criteria. These are parameters such as age, height, weight, language in which it is easier for you to communicate.

But it's not enough to find, for example, just a tall, not very thin man under 40 years old. On high-quality resources, more detailed search parameters are used.

If, for example, you have two higher educations and you are, say, a nuclear physicist, then the ability to filter male profiles by education level and profession will be very useful to you. Agree, it is always easier to find a common language with a person who is also educated like you.

Think about whether it is important for you to have the same or at least similar religious views with a man. After all, if you are a convinced Christian, it may not be easy for you to find a common language with the men of the Muslim world.

The hobby search option can also be very useful. Perhaps somewhere your ideal lives, who, like you, loves to play the guitar or dances the tango.

Or maybe you want to find that man who does not smoke, does not drink alcohol and is actively involved in sports? All this can also be set in the parameters on a quality dating site.

In general, before registering somewhere and filling out a questionnaire, think it over and analyze everything well.

So, let's sum up.

No matter how skeptical some are about virtual dating, they certainly have a number of undeniable advantages.

First, it's a great way to meet a lot of people from the comfort of your home (or workplace).

Secondly, you have time to get to know the person better: his interests, outlook on life, and so on.

And thirdly, even if you don’t have a romantic relationship, you will definitely gain a lot of friends and some experience.

In addition, communicating with native speakers is an invaluable practice for those who want to improve their spoken English (or French, German, Italian). And in general, communication with foreigners raises women's self-esteem 🙂

By and large, it doesn’t matter at all where you met: in a restaurant, on a tram or on the Internet, the main thing is that someone who understands and loves you is nearby. Life has proven that there are no boundaries for love. Let's take advantage of the opportunities that the Internet gives us.

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