Very small breasts - what to do?

Many girls are nervous about the fact that they have small breasts. But they don’t think at all about the fact that exactly the same number of their peers have complexes from the remarkable size of their breasts.

Masha, who wrote a letter to our psychologist, is also worried:

«I'm in 10th grade and I don't have breasts, only me. This is my sore subject. I'm not ugly, and many guys offer me to make love, but I can't - and all because of this. Summer is coming, they will disgrace me - I know the boys. My friends understand me, and unfamiliar girls ... laugh. Help me please. Maybe pills for breast growth, maybe some exercises? Masha" .

Increased girlish sensitivity and anxiety about her appearance also arise on the basis of the fact that it is completely unclear in which direction the girl is changing. Since I change, should I become different? This is incomprehensible. Such uncertainty, of course, is very worrisome. I want to deal with it in some easy way, for example, by drinking a pill for breast growth, so that the changes end quickly. It seems that then everything will fall into place, fears will disappear, and life will seem like raspberries, but this, unfortunately, is not the case.

With you, girl, there are really serious changes going on. It is impossible to cross them with some pill or to rush through them at the speed of light. But to cope with complexes is real. To do this, you first need to stop equating yourself with some part of your body. Indeed, in addition to the fact that you still have legs, arms, a head or a chest, you are also a person, and therefore you have many qualities, capabilities and even talents.

Young people, of course, are interested in the appearance of a girl, but this does not mean that they are fixated on forms. It is important for them how the girl keeps herself, how she treats herself and how she behaves towards others. It is not the flawlessness of the figure that makes the girl charming and attractive. Charm comes from a combination of charm, self-confidence and attentiveness. Young people like it when they are listened to, when they feel in the eyes of a girl the one and only. And the most interesting thing is that in girls they are attracted not by the perfection of form, but by unusualness, uniqueness. Read what girls like boys.

A supermodel's impeccable looks are good when she's featured in a glossy magazine or poster. Looking at her, it’s good for a guy to fantasize, imagine himself omnipotent and irresistible. In reality, girls with a model appearance very often make guys shy, feel insecure. It seems to them that they will never be able to meet their high standards, and this unbalances them.

Therefore, young people very often prefer beauties, although charming, but more earthly girls, with whom you can feel natural and calm. And charm, unlike natural beauty, is available to any girl, because it depends on the attitude towards herself. If a girl wants to be attractive, she looks after herself, keeps herself with dignity. When a guy sees this, he begins to feel that the girl has a zest - and this begins to excite, fascinate. So you just have to want - and everything is in your hands.

The main thing is not appearance, but charm, mystery and a sense of dignity. All this reliably attracts the attention of young guys. Believe me, it is much more difficult to intrigue a guy if you have long legs, but there is no zest.

And the girl who will try to humiliate you by reminding you of her small breasts... Think about it, because she also has dozens of complexes of her own (crooked legs or teeth, red hair that she is embarrassed about, or hair above her upper lip). She’s just trying to defend herself and have time to attack someone before they attack her… Treat it philosophically…