Every girl dreams in her life to meet, if not a prince, then at least a decent, kind, smart and handsome guy. Of course, all these concepts are individual. One likes brunettes, the other - blondes, the third - small and bald. It's not about that. Even though we have already decided on the ideal candidate, the question remains - where and how to look for her? Another thing is if you want to marry a millionaire .
Today we will talk about ordinary guys, such a good, solid middle peasant.
So, go hunting. Where to meet a good guy?
Actually, the preparations are over, but the problem of how a girl can meet a guy is still looming on the horizon.
Here is a small list of places where, according to statistics, girls manage to find the very one, desired and the only one.
Cafes, bars, restaurants. Do not think that men go to cafes and restaurants exclusively accompanied by a beautiful nymph. A wealthy and respectable man will never deny himself the pleasure of having lunch in a cozy restaurant, and, unlike a woman, he will never be ashamed of the fact that he came alone. Therefore, you should also visit the nearest decent cafe during your lunch break, of course, if finances allow. You can “hunt” both independently and “in conjunction” with a female friend or colleague. Just look both ways, suddenly your colleague will peck at the man sitting at the next table. If your state of mind allows, go alone, taking a good book with you. Firstly, you pass the time while waiting for an order, and secondly, you will not experience that awkwardness and stare around, eating with the eyes of men. If you like someone, smile at him.
Sports bars and clubs. meet a guy for free in themed sports clubs. If you are even a little fond of sports, sign up for a tennis section, diving or horseback riding courses. Firstly, and you will get a lot of fun, and secondly, you will have at your disposal an N-th number of young guys who are similarly fond of equestrian sports or scuba diving. What fate does not joke - perhaps in a couple of months you will go to joint training.
A separate issue is sports bars. A “good catch” happens in such places during championships (football, skiing, boxing). Of course, you should not go to such places if you are disgusted by the very fact of an hour and a half contemplation of 22 sweaty football players. However, if you can afford to watch the World Cup, cheer for your favorite team, and then discuss the details of the match over a glass of beer, then you are assured of authority in the men's team.
If a girl wants to meet a guy , then she does not stop her from going to bookstores, libraries (do not think that they are no longer in demand), specialty stores that attract men. For example, shops about fishing. Perhaps you will see a nice manager or buyer - be sure to ask him for advice on which fishing rod to choose for your father for his birthday. And then - turn on all your female potential.
You can meet a guy for free in the most ordinary supermarket. For young men, unencumbered by families and mostly eating in the work canteen, the weekly purchases of the things needed in the house are a tragedy. You can advise this or that washing powder or dishwasher liquid, the guy is unlikely to be against it. However, beware of men who hang over a shelf of T-shirts for half an hour. You don't need another Maine, obsessed solely with itself.
If the search for a good guy has become a matter of cosmic proportions, it may be worth looking for a new job. It can be a store of computer equipment, fashionable clothes for men and accessories, expensive wines, cognacs, tobacco products. Office romances have many downsides, but it all depends on which side you approach it from. Perhaps great love to the grave does not shine for you, but the attention of men is guaranteed. And as scientists say, a constant sense of one's own attractiveness contributes to the development of special vibes that attract men many times more strongly.
You can meet a guy on the street , in public transport. Don't take it as something trivial. Remember how the acquaintance began in the film "Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears". Perhaps this is destined for you. If you smile at the guy on the bus, it won't hurt you.
The article was prepared for the site shop-ultra.ru.
The author is Alena Nikitina.
Ololololo
16/06/2011 at 13:32
The article is good, but how to get the courage to speak first, that's the question .. :)
Here's my dream: I'll see, I'll go up and meet a young guy ..
But in reality - I swallow only snot.
Yumiko
28/03/2012 at 20:22
ahaha, and indeed, in words and dreams, everything is as simple as there is nothing to do. But what to do if you are shy or just get in the way?
Stanislav.
06/01/2013 at 20:27
Hello.
I'm 20 and I'm a guy.
In a bar, you will only meet an alcoholic who is obsessed with sports.
I come to supermarkets and (I arrive there for a maximum of 15 minutes).
You must realize.
That the more luxurious a man looks, the more girls he had and it’s not a fact that after sex on a first date or vice versa a long period of dating, he will not leave you.
+ sometimes pregnant.
Don't look at guys who flirt with girls.
Which, as it were, normally once again touch the girls, even if they are over the shoulder.
Do not go to clubs, they are looking for whores, respectively, males.
Restaurants go to those who want peace or those who are too busy for a relationship.
And there is too much demand for them.
The main thing is not to fall in love with a student.
Students only fuck, and when they encounter difficulties, they immediately run away.
So girls, start thinking about men as men only after 25 years old and it is advisable to get acquainted only with men over 25, then it will already be clear what he is like.
If a girl approaches a guy, he will show his character in the first 3 minutes of meeting.
And if a guy is with a girl, then he can hide his motives and personality for many, many years.
On dating sites, there are only masochists and perverts + not wealthy (especially those who buy VIP)
I wish you good luck.
Stanislav.
PS I'm hetero.
Questions here:
[email protected]
Anastasia Kudryavtseva
19/02/2013 at 13:44
Girls, based on my personal experience, I want to tell you that I met my martyr on a dating site, there are normal, adequate boys, so I think it’s real to find love on the Internet)
Somebody.
29/03/2013 at 14:05
Stanislav wrote nonsense.
Good guys are everywhere. And if you think like him, you can immediately send yourself to the monastery. You just need to be more impudent and not be upset at someone else's rudeness and stupidity. =) But yes, there are no normal ones in clubs and discos. People don't go there for that.
pate
30/03/2013 at 07:18
we have only electronic engineers at work and 25 percent are unmarried, I work as a seller, so you can immediately see who is ringed and who is not, but I’m 26 right now and I’m also not married from the village myself. I live in the city and we’ll go to the club to look for a girl, and how lucky there)) good luck to all the guys and girls
ly4ike
26/01/2014 at 14:45
Maybe it's not for nothing that the wise Chinese say that marriages are made in Heaven? Who will be lucky?
Although, water does not flow under a lying stone, something needs to be done, only, this is what ...
Alice
15/09/2014 at 16:54
Start over.
You have to be yourself, men like it.
It turns out that today you are nice, good, and in a week you are a complete bitch. You have to show who you really are. No need to sit at home and wait for the prince to come himself. NO NEED. Go hunting on your own. You can go to sports clubs, as written in the article, as well as to theaters, museums, and somehow social events taking place in your city. For example, we recently had a festival of colors in our city, there were a lot of people there, including men. If you met a man, then you don’t have to immediately imagine castles where you will live together and die on the same day, this happens only in fairy tales.
Then if he leaves you, you will feel bad because of these fairy tales. Men should fight for you, if you pester him yourself, then he may think that you are ready for anything for him. You should show some kind of indifference, but at the same time quietly give him a chance so as not to frighten him away, he may think that you don’t care about him at all. There is no need to bother a man, if you are dear to him, then he will definitely write to us himself. Do not be afraid to get acquainted, everything is only in your hands.
I hope my comment helped you.
Good luck:)
Vlad
09/10/2014 at 22:19
Yes, there is a problem, but I want to find a good, kind, feminine, smart, chaste girl. But where and how? It seems not a freak, and everyone says that I am a very interesting person, but why do girls prefer mediocrity, probably looking at me they think that I am a male, they told me so, the girls are afraid of me, they think I am not serious, and therefore I am still alone ( ((And I want the only one with whom we will breathe the same air. I can’t stand the society of vulgar girls, and I always even despised sex with them, I don’t want to be the one they consider me to be. But it looks like I’ll be left alone, I’m 24 and I don’t know how If suddenly someone wants to write to me, then here is my profile in VK - http://vk.com/id219867617 .
Good guy
12/12/2014at 04:21
There are good guys, they are mostly embarrassed to approach the girl themselves (What if she sends - these are the thoughts of 99.9% of the guys, if the guy is not immoral, and not a prankster, but serious). This is also because the girls are bitches (the same 99.9%). Well, there remains 0.1% of good girls who either sit at home, don’t go anywhere, or they don’t need a guy at all. Well, there is some nth factor when it is difficult to get to know each other: imagine, the Guy is standing in the store at the checkout, buying something, he liked the cashier girl, and he starts talking to her. People standing behind will be unhappy that they stand in line for a long time, waiting for you to talk enough, start shouting something. Even if they don’t scream, the girl will refuse, and then you will leave the store in shame. Here's how I see it. There are people on the Internet who want to correspond: He wrote me this, and I wrote this to him.
Alya
14/12/2014 at 19:10
Vlad, I don't believe you))) Such a cute guy. I just want to smack my cheeks) Otherwise I'm lonely, my friends are the same. We have a problem that all the guys need sex for one night, nothing more, up to 30 years old. And older, you are shy of them (older there by 5 years or more). And they just need a family. And the guys are vice versa, all the girls are shl..hee))) Yes, not all the same, I don’t consider the shl..oh the one who was in a serious relationship. Here's the paradox. It is necessary for girls and boys now to change their views and attitudes towards life.
Not an option
10/01/2015 at 10:06
Good article, laughed at the little things. “Well, we don’t need a millionaire” - in a feminine translation, it means “we need a millionaire and a prince on a white horse, we searched for him for a long time and unsuccessfully, along the way, we got a great deal or even got a trailer, and now we are mentally ready to find a patient who he will be happy for us like manna from heaven, because he has enough money to dine in a restaurant, which means that he will pull me, so wonderful, too. Hehe, not for you, I worked from 15 to 30, tore the veins, plowed in, while my peers in clubs and bars were messing around, relating. I would like a child, but only at you, girls, looking, I regret that budding is not our method. Although it is necessary to somehow solve this problem, yes. Without heirs of the first stage, life is not fun.
Man
20/11/2015 at 20:59
> Ololololo:
June 16, 2011 at 13:32
The article is good, but how to get the courage to speak first, that's the question .. :)
Here's my dream: I'll see, come up and meet a young guy ..
But in reality - I swallow only snot.<
It’s almost the same with me:
I saw a girl in the dining room last week, and she had already finished lunch, but on Wednesday this week she was, for some reason I didn’t want to get acquainted.
My opinion:
1. Not my type of girl
2. Either the second "I" prevents you from getting to know each other.
Man
20/11/2015 at 21:14
Do NOT contact me in the following situations:
clubs
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Theoretically, you can get to know me (refers to the city of Voronezh, Russia):
1. In the Olympic area (I like walking from Lomonosov Street to the side and to the village of Chertovitsy).
(a prerequisite is good weather, so by the summer it is dirty in the forest and there are many puddles) 2. On weekdays - in canteens (or self-service cafes).
Lately I’ve started going to the canteen at 63 Truda Avenue. I also go to the canteen in the Moskovsky business center, and when the weather is good and I’m in a good mood, I can go to 9 January Street and have lunch at Assorti or Time Lunch.
3. In some stores (for example, a perfume store, because you have to buy shaving foam, blades (cassettes) for a razor)
To be continued, I think...
Man
20/11/2015 at 21:21
Stanislav, I really liked the phrase:
>If a girl approaches a guy, he will show his character in the first 3 minutes of meeting.
And if a guy is with a girl, then he can hide his motives and personality for many, many years.<
So, girls, if you seem to like a guy, give him a hint, for example, look into his eyes and smile sparklingly (without baring your teeth), and only then approach him.
Stanislav, what he wrote, I completely agree.
(I personally don’t smoke, don’t drink alcohol at all, even at wakes (those who don’t drink alcohol drink mineral water), and on holidays juices, fruit drinks, etc.)
Man
20/11/2015 at 21:26
> Vlad:
9 October 2014 at 22:19
Yes, there is a problem, but I want to find a good, kind, feminine, smart, chaste girl. But where and how? It seems not a freak, and everyone says that I am a very interesting person, but why do girls prefer mediocrity, probably looking at me they think that I am a male, they told me so, the girls are afraid of me, they think I am not serious, and therefore I am still alone ( ((And I want the only one with whom we will breathe the same air. I can’t stand the society of vulgar girls, and I always even despised sex with them, I don’t want to be the one they consider me to be. But it looks like I’ll be left alone, I’m 24 and I don’t know how If suddenly someone wants to write to me, then here is my profile in VK
- http://vk.com/id219867617 .
and I'm 33 years old and haven't had a girlfriend yet, it's hard for me to find a soul mate.
Irina
03/01/2016 at 00:03
"Man" - at 33 was not there yet? and what's wrong with you? What are you so fond of that existing girls do not suit you?
RussellTirm
07/03/2016 at 02:41
Hello