Especially for those who have been trying to find their soul mate in their everyday environment for more than a year, they have come up with dating sites. Although no ... This is a lie! Even smart, beautiful and accomplished men and women who do not lack attention from the opposite sex go to the Internet for dating. Because it is CONVENIENT and EFFICIENT.
Dating channels can be different - social networks, specialized sites, chats, online games, instant messengers (such as Skype, Viber, Watsapp), but it all comes down to one thing - to bring together a man and a woman under a common star who would not have met under other circumstances.
Let's take a look at the popular myths that have overgrown dating sites today, and figure out where these legs grow from. cockroaches naive delusions.
Myth 1. You won't find LOVE on the Internet...
100% myth. Modern technologies, the frantic pace of life, the pursuit of a career ladder completely knock us out of a measured life in which one can successfully build a personal life. It was the Internet that erased the boundaries of time and space, giving couples the opportunity to look for their soul mate at a convenient time, late at night, wrapped in a blanket, or in the early morning with a cup of strong coffee. And most likely on the “other end of the wire” is a person who is just as tired of loneliness and absorbed in his work.
But overcoming embarrassment and shyness on the Web is much easier. Quite an imposing and attractive man will not dare to start a conversation with the girl he likes at the next table. Finding a reason to talk online is much easier.
Myth 2. There is no smell of security on the Web
All the arguments of the supporters of this myth boil down to the fact that instead of a slender young blond man, a fat, unpleasantly smelling maniac can sit on the other side of the screen.
And now evaluate your new friend, whom you met yesterday at the club. How well do you know him? Or that young man you wink at as you leave the gym? Thought?
Don't be naive! No one will protect you from deception either in real life or on the Web. But it is online communication that allows you to make a portrait of a person before a real meeting. Modern social media accounts will tell you about the last years of your boyfriend's life, his work, family situation, etc. What can I say, his manner and style of commenting on other people's posts and the focus of his page will tell more than a neighbor under his porch.
Myth 3. Girls hang out on dating sites without being treated with male attention = online dating is for losers
It is impossible to unambiguously refute this thesis. On dating sites, the audience is very diverse. There is only one fact to be learned.
Today, the Internet is firmly entrenched in our existence (smartphones have finally approved the Internet as the main communication channel), everyone has climbed into the Runet: from young to old. There are sociopaths, maniacs, losers and scammers, but there are a lot of such characters everywhere. Most of the inhabitants of the Network are ordinary mentally stable people, another question is how serious their intentions are (more on this below).
Therefore, an account on a dating site in no case equates a girl to losers. She knows what she wants and uses modern technology for her own purposes.
Myth 4. Searching for a couple on the Internet is embarrassing.
Closely related to the previous point. Indeed, it was previously believed that dating in the virtual world does not go into the real plane and has nothing to do with family happiness. But the experience of the last 15 years has proven otherwise. There are thousands of happy examples and friendly families, including among star couples. It all depends on what purpose was pursued when creating a profile on a dating site. There are those who seek only communication, support, mutual understanding. This is easily revealed in the first days of communication: it all comes down to empty and casual conversations.
If you specifically want to get married, listen to your heart, and do not obey the opinion of the faceless crowd.
Myth 5 . On dating sites you can find the same Prince
But this is a myth. Although from which side to look. The most real Danish (or Spanish / Norwegian / Swedish) princes, alas, do not look for wives either on the Internet or in a marriage agency. You will definitely not find a millionaire on the site. And then - how the card will fall. The more vital the goal, the more adequate the requirements - the higher your chances; as well as outside the window. We really hope that your Man will become the very Prince for you.
Myth 6. Internet marriages are short-lived.
Modern society cannot boast of good statistics at all: the divorce rate is very high in the post-Soviet space. And at the same time, the place of the meeting does not matter at all. There is no evidence to suggest that a family created by a man and a woman after meeting on the Web will be less strong.
Conclusion of the site Beewoman.ru. Any acquaintance does not lend itself to any laws and rules, just as there is no universal formula for the harmony of relationships. Remember that true love knows no barriers. As well as disappointment awaits many couples who met on the Web.
But since the Internet is so firmly rooted in our lives, why miss a real chance to meet true love? You have nothing to lose by devoting a week to a dating site. Maybe you'll be lucky.
Polina Morozova, especially for shop-ultra.ru. Thank you for helping to write the article portal LinkYou .
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